The art of criticize and accept criticism (Part 2)

In the last article we discussed about the technique to accept criticism. Now we will discuss how the arts in providing criticism.

Art of giving critiscm.

1. Intention must be sincere. 

Intend that the correction that we submit disebagkan by a sincere desire to help so that he knew his mistake. Provide support for bias motivated to improve themselves and help so that he can improve the quality of life.

2. Note the circumstances and conditions.

Try us know the situation and condition of a person before we criticize. Because the acceptance of someone in accepting criticism very dependent situation and the conditions they experienced.

3. Examine how to ciriticize.

The first in criticizing and correcting other people are not emotional. Even the important thing is we have to help that person find the right solutions for themselves as well as the most appropriate solution.Give him the motivation to improve themselves and make changes.

4. Ready to be rejected.

We must be ready for a correction that we do not necessarily accept such corrections. We also have to be ready when the person we would argue correction.

5. Do not feel deserving.

Do not feel deserving if we accepted the correction. Do not ever feel that we are better than someone who has kiita correction. Because actually we also never make mistakes.

So the little experience I can share. May the humility can be a way of life and way of salvation for us all.