Friday, November 26, 2010

How assertive are you..?

The problem that comes a barrage must be addressed resolutely. If not, the issue unresolved will continue to haunt the next step of our lives. Decisiveness is not only necessary for selecting super important affairs. Instead of the small things in everyday life, it would appear if you include people who are assertive or not.

As an interlude, we'll play for a while. Please answer according to your personal.:)

1. He says that he wants to be married with you.
    a. Very rushed once, but we are only acquaintances
    b. I want to, but more needs to be prepared. I will think again.
    c. Why should it be postponed? Other matters can be considered later.

2. You've just started to clean up a messy house. But at the same time you invite friends to lunch. 
    a. Uugh..home affairs is far more important.
    b. In a hurry to clean the house, then immediately following the meeting place.
    c. Lunch invitation does not come twice. Clearing house can be at any time.
   
3. Your friend confused select 2 bag she likes, and your suggestions ...
    a. Rejecting both, and told her to look for another model.
    b. Buy a bag that color is not owned by her. But according to the color of most of her clothes.
    c. Both are good, I can not decide for her choice.

4. You are faced with a partner and brother who were at loggerheads. How is your attitude..??
    a. Telling your partner to apologize as he reminds her to respect the older.
    b. Hearing the stories of both. Impartial one but trying to find a solution.
    c.Better to avoid them. 

5. There are 3 guys who aggressively approach. How is your attitude..??
    a. Since I am familiar with A first, so I am more fit to choose him.
    b. One time close to A, then alternate approaches B and C. Just to know he personality of each.
    c. I am confused to choose between them.

Okey...If you already feel to answer all questions. Let's see how assertive are you.:)

If your answer is more A :
Do not be too rigid. Life indeed must have rules. But that does not mean to walk stiffly. Still needed the wisdom to sort out the various options are displayed in plain sight.

If your answer is more B :
Some people might consider you a little vague though not 100% right. You just need more time to think and analyze various risks. Henceforth, learn to think faster. Because after all, there are some desicions that must be taken within a short time.

If your answer is more C :
It is fine if you let live principle for water flow. But life must have purpose. And to get to the purpose required a firmness that every step that was taken does not end in vain.
  

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